The Power of Seeking Encouraging Advice
The Power of Seeking Encouraging Advice Most people, when dealt a blow like the loss of a job or some other unexpected event, seek out those who are going through similar adversities because they think these people will better understand their plight. Although they tell themselves they are looking for advice, what they really want is sympathy. The problem is, that sympathy doesn’t solve problems. In fact, more often than not, it profounds the problem During my early working years, when I received word of my pending layoff or company’s downsizing as we would say today, I felt the same way most people in that situation would feel. My first reaction was to contact a couple of former employees of the company who had been laid off to see what they were doing. As expected, what I got were tales of disappointment and woe. They had been unable to find jobs and their savings were running low. Bills were piling up and they were at loss as to what they would do. None of the conversations wi...